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Email is certainly different than letters, telephone, or face to face conversation. It's kind of a combination of them all. So if you have trouble getting a feel for email
style, don't feel bad: difficulties are the rule, not the exception.
You've probably already seen 'emoticons' in email -- they are small faces which make up for the lack of verbal and facial inflections present in other communication. They are a
separate language of their own, like hieroglyphics or pictograms, and require some knowledge of the language to be used effectively, especially if you do not want your intended
audience to misunderstand your emotions! Some common Emoticons are:
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:> or : ) or :-)
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Smile, happy
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):-):-):-)
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Loud guffaw
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:< or :( or :-(
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Frown, sad
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;> or ; ) or ;-)
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Wink, sly
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:-J
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Tongue in cheek
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:0
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Oh! excited, surprised
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:-!
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Foot in mouth
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Some people make emoticons like this: (-: --left-smiled. Don't think that using them is stupid -- many times emoticons can make sarcasm, joking, or irony less aggressive
looking.
There are literally thousands of Emoticons. (Go to NetLingo.com for a comprehensive list.) The basic
idea is to use common typewriter symbols to imitate a facial expression. It works well, if the recipient is either well versed with Emoticons or understands them in the context of
your text. The problem arises when the recipient is either unfamiliar with Emoticons or perhaps unfamiliar with the language or facial expressions of the sender. So Emoticons can
work both ways - and you need to be careful.
Another method of incorporating emotions into your email is simply to use parentheses with the intended emotional word. For example, the phrase:
I really wish you would not do that
can be transformed into two different sentences with opposite emotional connotations by adding:
I really wish you would not do that (grin).
I really wish you would not do that (frown).
Other text conventions:
- ALL CAPS IS CONSIDERED SHOUTING.
- many people consider all lower case mumbling
- _Underscored Text_ indicates underline or italic
- In place of bold text, *asterisks* are used
- > Lines of text with brackets
> preceding them show a
> quote from a previous message.
And a few suggestions:
- Set your email software to TEXT mode. The RootsWeb Email Lists only accept TEXT emails; they do not accept HTML emails.
- Put a meaningful subject on your email. This helps those who are reading the mail you send. "IMPORTANT!!!!" or "Please read" aren't useful -- they just
look like spam.
- Don't reply to a message if you're not addressing its content. If you want to send a new message to someone, use the Compose function.
- Don't forward jokes, virus warnings, petitions for 'good causes,' or other similar material to email lists.
- Don't send personal email to email lists without asking the original sender's permission.
- Don't send attachments -- they are automatically rejected by the RootsWeb Mailing List system.
- Think before you flame. (See below.)
Many people find it much easier to be more aggressive with email other forms of communication. This is called 'flaming' -- here's more about it. We've all flamed someone
one time or another. Sometimes it can be fun, but it has gotten people into trouble. Generally speaking, if you find yourself writing a nasty email, it may be wiser to save the
message and come back to it after a while -- it's easy to write something that seems fine now which you really regret later. If you still feel as strongly, well, there you are.
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